To Become a Leader, Act Like One
I found rather than waiting for my promotions at Amazon, I was more fulfilled and grew myself as a leader by pretending I had already been promoted.
Soon after I got the very first promotion of my career, I noticed something odd. I felt different. I was acting differently, too — in my interactions with my peers, the way I allocated my time, how I tackled projects. With a more senior title, I realized, I’d subconsciously started acting how I believed a more senior person should act.
I liked the change in myself. At the same time, though, it was also frustrating to realize how much influence my job title had held over my behavior. If I’d just acted this way to begin with, I remember thinking, I could have gotten that promotion much faster. I also didn’t love that I had let external feedback control my internal image of who I was. I had waited for the external validation of being promoted to determine who I was as a leader rather than relying on my internal self-image.
Every chance I could, I used my internal dialogue to remind myself I was a senior leader.
So I decided that going forward, I would pretend. Since my promotion had helped me to act the way I wanted to, I would force the same effect by mentally adding one level to my job title at all times. In other words, as long as I was a “Level 2” manager, I would mentally tell myself I was a “Level 3” manager. Repeatedly. Over and over again. Every chance I could, I used my internal dialogue to remind myself I was a senior leader.
It’s a funny little thing, but it made a drastic difference in my behavior. When I’ve suggested this trick to my mentees at Amazon, many have come back saying it changed their career trajectory for the better.
Of course, it’s not terribly useful to say, “Just act more senior.” Here are steps to take to understand that goal and then create a plan to accomplish it.
Observe senior leaders
To get yourself in the right headspace, pay attention to the people above you in the workplace hierarchy. I don’t mean taking mental notes on how to impress them. I don’t mean focusing on what they’re telling you to do. For this to work, you need to adopt the mindset of an objective observer, studying the details of how they behave. What types of questions do they ask? How do they interact with others? What are they worried about? Over time, I began to understand what differentiated the leaders at my workplace from everyone else simply by noting the types of things they focused on.
Long-term vs. short-term success: Senior leaders are willing to spend extra effort focusing on long-term trajectories. They invest early to ensure later success. A more junior manager might say, “Susan isn’t ready for promotion this cycle, so there’s no need to review her in this meeting.” A senior leader might say, “Let’s review everyone we don’t expect to promote within the next 18 months and discuss why we don’t believe that person is on track to grow.”
Execution vs. strategy: Senior leaders are more concerned with the big “why” questions than the “how” questions. A more junior employee might ask about an execution problem, such as “How do we change the refresh rate of the data on that screen?” A senior leader might ask, “Why do customers use this dashboard? What are they trying to accomplish? Is this the most useful way to present this information?”
Doing the right thing vs. hitting goals: Senior leaders care about doing the right thing for the company’s future more than declaring success based on previous forecasts. A junior leader who feels the need to prove themselves by hitting targets might say, “If we cut that feature, we could hit our launch goal for our new app.” A senior leader is more likely to feel secure enough to say, “We’re going to launch when we’re ready, not a moment earlier.”
Collaboration vs. winning: Senior leaders believe success comes through teamwork and that business is not a zero-sum game. Where a more junior employee might feel territorial over their team’s project, a senior leader would welcome ideas and offer to pitch in from elsewhere in the company. They know that personal career success comes from driving overall business success.